"Those poor boys"
"She deserves to be punished too."
"I’m not saying I support rape, but-"
"Sorry to say - she deserved it."
"She put herself in harm’s way"
"But if she was fingered, then that’s not rape."
"She ruined their lives."
"Well she didn’t exactly say ‘no’.."
"Yea, but did you see what she was wearing?"
"Boys will be boys!"
"She should know better than to drink at a party…"
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH
crying over the “but she was fingered one”
I frequently feel like my assault is not as legitimate (and therefore I have less right to be traumatized) because my assailant penetrated me with his fingers instead of his penis- his reasoning was that he didn’t have a condom- and forced me to make him ejaculate
it’s really validifying of my experience to here what happened referred to as rape
"oh my god stop criticizing young girls who like 50 Shades of Gray or Twilight you can’t tell them what they can and can’t read"
no we can’t but we have to protect young girls from mistaking abusive behavior for genuine affection at all costs
The net worth of the average black household in the United States is $6,314, compared with $110,500 for the average white household.
Tell me with a straight face America is fair and just to its Black citizens. Tell me with a straight face Black Americans have the same opportunities as their non-Black compatriots.
Go on, tell me.
Tell me with a straight face how it’s Black Americans’ fault they’ve remained dirt poor and assetless since the day they stopped being property themselves.
Tell me with a straight face it’s too late for reparations. Tell me with a straight face this is somehow all on Black people.
Just when was it between abolition and 2014 that Black Americans were given a fair shake? And when did they fumble that?
Give me the dates, any dates.
ok y’all I think I maybe overreacted with Unremarkable. he didn’t have appendicitis but he went to the doctor today and apparently he has a kidney stone. so I think maybe that pic on facebook was posted yesterday but is from a while ago. so I haven’t said anything.
but my friends all think I should still cut him loose as he’s generally been awful (this is the frequently won’t wear a condom guy). and I kind of have realized that I take a lot of shit from this guy that I wouldn’t take from a significant other. and I think it’s bullshit that I don’t say anything even when he really upsets me.
so I should probably get over the fact that I really like him and just stop seeing (well really fucking) him.
my bff says I deserve & need someone who gives more than they take, someone who is a lil more into me than I am into them, and who wants to show me new things and help me have fun. and that sounds amazing! I think the problem is I believe I only deserve people who treat me shitty, people who can’t be bothered to text me back or keep our plans or to respect me.
I can’t support transphobic feminists.